Dating with trans women is different from dating with cisgender women. You should pay more attention to your words and your manner. It doesn't mean trans dating demands special treatment. Transgender women always try to be nice and polite to connect with people. While some men become kind of rude and disrespectful when they find their partners are transgenders. That's very frustrating. So, if you really want to get into a serious trans dating relationship, reading the following rules about dating a trans woman.
Don't ask her real name
Even if you want to know her birth name. It's not a good idea to ask about. You just have to accept the fact that her second name is still her real name, because everyone has the right to take another name if they are not satisfied with their parents' choice. At the same time, words like "I want to know you better" or "I want to know all about you" do not explain why you want to know her real name.
Don't ask if they've ever worked in the sex industry
It's a very personal topic and it's best not to bring it up until trans girls are ready to discuss it. Most people don't know how difficult transgender people are, nor what difficulties divers girls face when looking for a job. Nevertheless, not all the girls have taken that road. They also go to college and have the financial support of their families before they can find a regular job. In any case, asking such questions on a date, even if you are not malicious, your words may sound offensive, leaving the girl with a stereotypical impression.
Praise for her appearance as a woman
"You look so pretty today" is a perfect compliment. Of course, you can also say. "your clothes look great and suit your complexion." It's important to note that "passable" or "feminine" are not compliments. If you want to say something that makes the date nice and enjoyable, avoid praising them for their successful adoption of gender transition. It's a long and hard process for them, and it's what they do for themselves. They don't need anyone's approval.
Ask their interests
Talk to trans women about relaxing topics during a date to make them feel comfortable and relaxed. For example, talk about their hobbies and interests. Anyone is willing to talk about something that makes themselves happy during a few hours. In addition, these topics are gender-neutral, which will make you more suitable for transgender girls.
Consider the cisgender woman
The easiest and right way to know if you are moving in the correct direction with a transgender woman is to think about these questions first "Do I take the same action to a cis woman ?" or "Will I talk the same things with a cis woman ?" "Is this something I would do to a cis woman?" If the answer to these questions is "no", then you don't do it. Transgender women should receive the same level of respect and acceptance as anyone else in the world. Transgender girls are also girls. They deserve a partner who loves them wholeheartedly and a meaningful relationship.